Tuesday, October 1, 2013

about a girl...

what can you say about a girl who loves without boundaries
gives of herself 100 percent? of that same girl, who falls in love with someone who is not worthy of even a morsel of her heart, of her time? this girl that allows that someone to use her, if it means that that she has his time, however brief?

would you tell her she was pathetic?
would you feel sorry for her?
would you hope beyond hope, that she realizes what she was doing?

what if this girl told you,  that she knows
she knows he doesn't love her back
she knows he is using her
she knows she is allowing it
she knows he is a jerk

what then?

what words of wisom would you give her?

how does she get off of that toxic merry-go-round?
how does she realize her worth?

this girl is lost
scratching and digging her way back to herself



'Yellow Rose' Jasmine said...

It is tough. We are who we are. And yet in order to be our best selves we all must continually grow.
I have personally found that asking myself what I am getting from a particular habit and then how I could get what I want and need in a healthier way has been pretty productive.

Yvonne said...

YRJ- Thanks for your words. It's a daily battle that must be fought, otherwise, the alternative would be awful.