Sigh, have you ever ended a relationship and thought, "Oh crap! No more hot, sultry, curl your toes, AMAZING sex!" Yeah you have, don't lie. We all have at some point in our lives. I was reading an article about this very same thing earlier today. Ok, so it was a girlie magazine, I'll admit it. What? It was storming and dreary -perfect weather for girlie mags and horrible Lifetime movies. Anyway, so reading this article got me thinking (and we all know what happens when I start thinking). It made me wonder how many of us have often thought along the same lines. I mean, let's say the relationship suddenly went bad, but the sex was good. Great even. Stay in the bad relationship for the great sex? My answer is hell no. I would sacrifice the great sex for my peace of mind and well being. Staying in relationship for the sake of great sex is as bad as staying in a relationship for the kids or something along the same lines. But I must admit, I've thought about staying for the great sex. I did actually. A long, long, time ago. I had been with my boyfriend for two years. The first year and a half was incredible. But the last six months of our relationship was horrible. We fought like cats and dogs every day. We were close to becoming enemies, it was that bad. But both of us knew that our sex life was the only part of our relationship that seemed to work and was in sync. We held on to that for as long as we could, for that reason alone. In hindsight, looking back now, I should have ended things sooner rather than later. But I didn't. Meh, I was very young. You live and learn, right? I had not thought about that in years and then I read that article and it all comes back. Which reminds me, I miss "curl your toes" sex. :)
So what do you think? Ever stayed solely for the nookie? Or would you?
That's what's on my mind tonight. And now it's on yours, you're welcome.