I was reading another blogger's comment on my post: http://yvonnewritingmylifeaway.blogspot.com/2011/08/how-about-laugh-youre-welcome.html tonight. The post was about my recent "love letter" from an inmate. Yes, you read that correctly. Inmate. Stop it!
The comment was made by Frisky Virgin over at: http://thefriskyvirgin.blogspot.com/. She's got a great blog! If you haven't checked it out yet, make the time time to do so! You won't be disappointed. So anyway, Frisky asked me if I thought we'd ever meet the "Wow" guy. You know the one she means right? The guy that literally takes our breath away and makes us go weak at the knees and results in us wearing a silly grin on our face all day long! The one that consumes are every thought, breathe, and dreams. The one that brings out the best and the worst in us, the one that encourages us to be a better person, the one that makes us feels as if we are the most beautiful woman on earth and every sun rises and sets around us. That guy. That's the one FV and I are looking for. That's the one that so many other single women are looking for. Yeah, that would be the Wow guy. My response to her question? "I hope so." And I do. But sometimes, hope just starts to get harder and harder to do. At times, I feel so discouraged and so let down and defeated. So much so, that I want to wave the little white flag and say, "Enough! I give up!" And yes, I am all too familiar with the saying, "It will happen the minute you stop looking for it." If I hear that one more time, I'm going to claw that person's eyes out. You have been warned. Bitter? No. Not at all. Just annoyed a little when people are so quick to tell me to stop looking, over and over and over again! Enough! I'm NOT looking. I don't go out with an agenda to "find" someone. I just go out to have fun, enjoy my friends and enjoy myself. And if by some cosmic explosion or Superman's superpowers, I happen to find that "Wow" guy, well then, that is just a plus! In return, he'll see me, catch his breath, and utter the same thing, "Wow!" What woman doesn't want that?
So FV, to answer your question, I don't know if we will ever find him or not. We can only hope.