tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6105870530641515642.post4426019794135900299..comments2023-10-15T03:38:51.861-05:00Comments on Writing my life away!: From First Date to No Way!Yvonnehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08038918668619367960noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6105870530641515642.post-74256402511438067102011-01-27T00:11:44.656-06:002011-01-27T00:11:44.656-06:00All - Thanks for your input. I also agree that it...All - Thanks for your input. I also agree that it is possible to know instantly whether or not there is any chemistry. It's either there or it's not. However, sometimes, men and women base their decision to bail on looks alone. Which can be counterproductive, I think. Because what if the person is drop dead gorgeous but empty inside? Or evil? Or what if the person is not attractive Yvonnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08038918668619367960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6105870530641515642.post-47632319495406571322011-01-26T23:53:00.755-06:002011-01-26T23:53:00.755-06:00I'll always give it at least one date to meet ...I'll always give it at least one date to meet and get to know. There have been many first dates where it was clear to me this would be the last. But, I'm also upfront about it and let them know the date was an epic fail, but maybe we could be friends?<br /><br />That never really happens though...Underground Dudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01938245775118347460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6105870530641515642.post-81938395071835413062011-01-26T10:42:17.041-06:002011-01-26T10:42:17.041-06:00Waiting until the end of the date is the best thin...Waiting until the end of the date is the best thing. Sometimes nerves can block the connection. If they've found the vibe before they can find it again, they just need to recognize that it was in different formats and wait for the adjustment. <br /><br />Personally, when things really started to change for me when I was dating, is when I stopped giving people as many chances. Around the time Creatively Sensitivehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05228982979282038258noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6105870530641515642.post-16076899391141024112011-01-26T08:37:24.972-06:002011-01-26T08:37:24.972-06:00If Gus used the exact words "very pretty"...If Gus used the exact words "very pretty" when he called you at "halftime" it could be code for "not a ravishing beauty - not a Dallas Cowboys cheerleader supermodel type like I was expecting." Men tend to set the bar of expectation high and the least little thing that they find "wrong" with a women can be a deal breaker (see Shallow Hal). Nevertheless, Shady Del Knighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03839935472941264414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6105870530641515642.post-83223355250288807532011-01-26T01:17:12.764-06:002011-01-26T01:17:12.764-06:00Sometimes there's just no chemistry, or someth...Sometimes there's just no chemistry, or something doesn't click. There's one guy I was interested in for a while, he seemed like the kind of guy I could stay with for a long time, but we fought like an old married couple, even while we were trying to arrange a first date. Sometimes it's just not meant to be.Megan.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11275877957953907984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6105870530641515642.post-17006372057000331572011-01-26T00:51:49.616-06:002011-01-26T00:51:49.616-06:00I'm so glad we've connected. This is alrea...I'm so glad we've connected. This is already fun. I fully agree with you. There was no reason for Gustabo to write her off. Men want some grand fireworks display at first meeting. Women are more realistic in knowing the attraction will grow, if things are right.<br /><br />I'm so sorry your last date was like the "Draconian measures" guy. It ain't a picnic out there, huhRawknrobyn.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15997241410192066577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6105870530641515642.post-24236167186417618442011-01-26T00:31:33.756-06:002011-01-26T00:31:33.756-06:00Well a person may like a person via the internet a...Well a person may like a person via the internet and phone and such but meeting them is the big one two. That happened with Michael!<br /><br />http://theadorkableditzmissteps.blogspot.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6105870530641515642.post-11731069285276681382011-01-25T23:59:54.085-06:002011-01-25T23:59:54.085-06:00im interested to kno why he wasnt feelin her...onl...im interested to kno why he wasnt feelin her...only a little though just because I like reading your posts. <br /><br />enjoy a laugh on me...<br /><br />http://goodmusak.blogspot.com/2011/01/hilarious-brett-favre-parody-video.htmlMister Kinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02105642756408970696noreply@blogger.com